Dating And Seduction
By Vincent DiCarlo, Sat Dec 10th
Let me ask you a question. It's ok. You don't have to answeraloud. Have you ever experienced any of the following things with awoman? -Trying to say the right things to "win her over"?
-Attempting to prove that you were her "ideal man"? -A cautious feeling that any moment you might do something thatwould turn her off? -Wondering at all if she's interested? If you're like 99.99% of all men in the dating scene, you'veprobably answered yes. Today I'm going to ouline a simple solution to these problemsthat you will be able to start using right away. It's called screening. The most relevant definition to screening for our purposes is: Screen v. To examine (a job applicant, for example)systematically in order to determine suitability. When you are with a woman, and it feels as though she os"systematially examining you in order to determinesuitablility", (Jeez, that's a mouthful) she's screening you. The solution you ask? Simple. Screen her first. That's right. Start screening her first, and it will be verydifficult for her to screen
you since she'll be too busy tryingto win YOU over. HOW TO SCREEN: Before you can examine her for suitability, you first have toknow what you are looking for. Here's an exercise. Get out a piece of paper and write down thetop 3 characteristics you look for in a woman. By the way, don't write down things that you can tell by lookingat her. I know there's a few guys out there that are about towrite "hot" as their first characteristic. Basically, since you can tell if she's hot based on your firstglance, there's no need to screen for it. I'll do the exercise with you. I wrote down: -Independent -Passionate -Supportive Now, what you'll want to do is design a few questions toindirectly determine if she has those qualities or not. This is easy. For example, for "independent", I might say something like: "You know, I really like women who lead exciting lives of theirown. Are you the type of person who would rather createsomething completely unique and her own or would you rather bepart of a team?" It's subtle, interesting, get's right to the point, and alsolet's her know you have high expectations. Here's another hint. Most women when they are interested in aguy, will work like the devil to pass their screens. Don't forget to reward her when she passes your screens! Thiswill make her feel good about pleasing you and motivate her todo more of that in the future! About the author:Vincent DiCarlo is a world famous dating coach. His experiencecomes from years of training pickup artists in undergroundseduction lairs across the East Coast. He currently runstheApproach: The Science of Social Chemistry for theModern Gentleman, with his partner Sebastian Drake. Attract Women: theApproachSeduction Workshops |
